A dog’s guide to growing older – 𝕋𝕙𝕖 𝕋𝕠𝕕𝕒𝕪 𝔼𝕔𝕠𝕟𝕠𝕞𝕪

There are other positive elements to ageing. I’m in lockstep with Man. Or should I say lock-limp. They say dogs end up looking like their owners, and really, you couldn’t have better proof than we two – both limping along, him pretending to go slowly for my sake; me pretending to go slowly for his sake.

“Oh, come along, you two,” says Lady, marching briskly ahead.

Man says: “It’s Clancy’s fault, he’s just pretending to sniff that tree to give himself a breather.”

I think (but don’t say): “Mate, I’m only pretending to sniff so you can delay what looks like an impending heart attack.”

So be kind – to yourself and those you love. That’s my number one advice about growing old.

I have other tips – a dog’s guide, if you will, to growing older. Perhaps I should commit my thoughts to paper? Maybe there are some humans at your farm who might benefit from my insights?

So, rule one: be kind. Then there’s my second rule of ageing: keep going. In other words, if you fall over, get up again. But only after waiting sufficient time. That way, with your head held high, it looks like you chose to “sit down on the floor for a while, admittedly, quite suddenly”.

Third point. Don’t be too proud to delegate tasks. With my hip problems, I find I can no longer scratch behind my ears. This was my main hobby for my first eight years of life – producing the same outcome that my human friends achieved through hot tubs, Thai massage or learning Ancient Greek. That’s right: complete oblivion. But, these days, I reach out for help. I put my head in Man’s lap, and as soon as my head hits, he starts scratching. Well-trained, he hits the point I like best of all. Bliss! According to studies I’ve read, it also helps his blood pressure, so it’s a win-win.

Number four: an afternoon sleep is not a crime. Sometimes, the older humans in my circle go all weird when confessing to a quick snooze in the early afternoon. Why the embarrassment? Why the tone of, “Oh, I must be getting old?” Is every Spaniard a monster? What about our Mexican friends or those who reside in that fine nation called Colombia, that country where they speak the world’s sweetest Spanish?

What about, more to the point, the world’s dogs? Nine hundred million dogs – the current global estimate – cannot be wrong! Dogs learn to snooze when we are still puppies and – over time – become supremely expert at the art. There’s that offensive human saying: “You snooze, you lose”. What rubbish! I supply an alternative: “You sleep, then reap, keep and then complete.” Here’s my deep dog wisdom: There’s no shame in a disco nap.

Five: don’t bury bones for later. I used to do this a lot. The more I was enjoying a bone, the more likely I was to cut short my pleasure and decide to hide it in the garden. OK, sure, it was often more delicious a week later, coated in dirt, buzzing with flies, tasting manky – but is delayed gratification always the world’s best philosophy? OK, when young, you should always work hard, study hard, and save hard, but what’s the point of delayed gratification unless you eventually call a halt, unless you eventually flick the switch to “Enjoy”? For me, it’s now. I’ll suck every bit of joy from that bone, then leave it, desiccated and well-sucked, on the lawn. Bury it for later? The danger is: I’m so old, I’ll forget where I’ve hidden it.

Oh, and finally, point six: strange hairs will pop out, often at weird angles. I think they look good on a dog. To Man, I say: “Deal with them”.

Now we look the same, I find myself more concerned as to how he looks. Hope these thoughts are useful.