It also helps to protect and improve bone density, which decreases as we age, in particular in menopause. Women who lift with me regularly send me their DEXA scans showing improved bone density β they havenβt changed their lifestyle or diet, only the way they train.
I focus on compound functional exercises which mimic daily movement. If youβre getting out of a car, you rotate. If you pick up groceries or put something away in an overhead cupboard, itβs squatting, itβs pressing. My workouts put those movements together because that will really help us as we age. In fact, studies show that our quad, hamstring and glute strength is a key marker for mortality.
Consider your muscles as the organ of longevity we need to cherish. We start losing muscle from the age of 30, but even in our 50s or 60s itβs not too late to start rebuilding.
2. Fuel your body well
For me, eating is not about restriction, dieting, bikini bodies or 24-hour fixes β itβs about nourishing and fuelling my body correctly. I donβt have scales in my house, I donβt weigh my food. Itβs a change in mindset for many midlife women β but if your aim is to become as healthy, strong and well as you can be, itβs imperative to shift the emphasis away from flat stomachs.
In the last decade, Iβve made protein a bigger part of my diet, and I advise including a solid source of protein in every meal. It keeps you satisfied for longer and avoids glucose dips, which make you hungry and tired. Itβs also key for repairing muscle. I know roughly how much protein is in a chicken breast or an egg, but I donβt advise getting too fixated on numbers. Especially if youβre snacking on nuts, the protein count adds up.
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I have a banana and coffee before my class, for that quick energy release β and after it, a protein breakfast (eggs, usually) or Greek yoghurt with berries. I make sure itβs got carbs too, healthy fats, for instance, avocado on sourdough, and fibre for my gut. Itβs crucial not to cut out food groups. We need carbs for muscle repair and building too.
3. Value your sleep, rest and recovery
Sleep is your superpower β prioritise it. I try to get seven quality hours. If I do, itβs a game-changer for my whole day. Multiple research studies show that sleep is vital for every aspect of health, from immune function to muscle growth and tissue repair, memory and concentration.
Inadequate sleep increases our risk of obesity, type 2 diabetes and heart disease. If you havenβt slept well, you reach for the sugary things to perk you up, and too much coffee. So how to help boost your sleep? Getting outside in the morning light helps to regulate our circadian rhythm. And in the evening, I recommend getting off your screen at least three hours before bed.
I consciously wind down. And I donβt eat late at night. I also take magnesium glycinate at night in capsule form. Itβs so good for muscle recovery too. I try to switch off the light before 11, as I wake up crazy early. I know I sleep better when Iβve exercised β itβs not just the physical fatigue, it helps with stress, anxiety and an overactive mind, all of which get in the way of restful sleep.
Research shows that moderate aerobic exercise increases the amount of deep sleep you get. Meanwhile, the days you donβt train are just as important as those you do. Two rest days a week are fundamental for muscle repair β and growth. Iβm not suggesting you do nothing β you might go for a walk, do yoga, or you might be gardening or dancing. Itβs all movement. But those rest days are key, or you will get injured.
4. Motion is lotion β work on flexibility
In midlife and beyond, our joints naturally get stiffer you might have noticed β¦ And if weβre to retain and improve mobility we need to work regularly on our range of motion β whether by doing yoga, Pilates or straightforward stretching. Just 10 minutes of stretches daily can be transformative for your flexibility, posture, balance and joints.
It really is a question of βuse it or lose itβ. I advise stretching first thing β in your pyjamas, if you wish. Or squeeze in some mobility moves while the kettle boils. (Tacking on a new habit to an existing one β βhabit stackingβ β can make it stick.) Think of it as preparing your body for the day. For people who suffer with painful knees or wrists, I provide modifications to certain moves. You donβt have to squat if you canβt squat.
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Not everyone can hold a plank, or do a press-up or do tricep dips. Thatβs absolutely fine β there are so many other exercises you can do instead. Another common complaint, restricting peopleβs movement, is lower back pain. But quite often it emerges that theyβre not working their glutes. If glutes arenβt active, and therefore strong enough to sufficiently stabilise the pelvis and hips, lower back muscles are forced to overcompensate. The good news is, there are so many ways you can target the glutes, and that really helps.
Yoga is a low intensity option for improving flexibility and balance.Credit: iStock
5. Donβt underestimate the power of walking
For me, walking is a must because I have dogs. But Iβd walk daily anyway. Walking is underrated. Itβs excellent for so many muscle movement patterns. You can walk for cardiovascular benefits β simply quicken your pace β and walking on an incline, or with a weighted backpack, helps build muscle in your legs. A 2021 study from the University of Massachusetts Amherst found that walking at least 7000 steps a day reduced middle-aged peopleβs risk of premature death from all causes by 50 to 70 per cent.
But walking doesnβt have to be a workout. The key thing is to walk to enjoy it. Even a 30-minute stroll is significant in terms of daily movement. Often, people do their workouts but forget their daily steps β itβs moving throughout the day that really makes the difference.
6. Hop, skip, jump
The thought of jumping horrifies some people, but explosive movement β combining strength and power β can be one of the best things you can do for yourself. Whether itβs hops, skips, jumps or shuttle runs (think, galloping sideways), if you leave the ground, you have to land β and that impact puts stress on our muscle, which pulls on the bone, and that βgoodβ stress stimulates new bone cell growth.
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You have to be careful if youβre at risk of osteoporosis, or concerned about injury, but there are low-impact options β a mini-trampoline or rebounder. Or simple heel raises. Or step-ups on the stairs. You donβt have to do jump squats or burpees. Some people tick the box with running, but it can be detrimental to joints. I do a lot of skaters. Theyβre brilliant because youβre working on single leg strength, which is key. Youβre jumping laterally on one leg and landing, so youβre using your explosive power and focusing on your balance and core. I love any single leg exercise β single leg squats, single leg deadlifts β working on your stability is so important, especially as you get older.
A simple piece of equipment such as skipping rope can set you on your way to meeting your fitness goals in 2026.Credit: iStock
7. Be consistent, and know how to motivate yourself
People often say, βItβs alright for you, you love exercise! How do I start?β I say, βTry to give exercise six weeks. In two weeks youβll start to feel different. In four weeks you start to see a difference, and in six weeks it almost becomes a habit.β
Consistency is everything β so find something you actually enjoy. If you hate running, Couch to 5K is not for you. In midlife, itβs about training smarter, not harder and longer. Set small goals. My workouts are half an hour β theyβre effective and tough. Research has shown that short workouts work, you donβt have to hit it hard for an hour.
Part of staying motivated is to not overdo it. I love running, but Iβm not pounding the pavements every morning. I do a little 5K loop of Battersea Park once a week, and I come back buzzing. My advice is to exercise in the morning, first thing, before the day takes over. Set your alarm 10 minutes earlier. Lay out your kit the night before. Know what youβre doing. Have the class downloaded or booked, or arrange to exercise with a friend. Clear all mental obstacles. You donβt need to be perfect, you need to stick at it.
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