What makes someone a cat person?
Itβs an elusive question for a seemingly innocuous creature, one that defined the early days of YouTubeβs viral videos (see: Grumpy Cat, Nyan Cat and many more) and fuelled heated debate between Donald Trump and Taylor Swift, childless cat lady and international superstar.
Mostly, though, you either love them or hate them.
On the day that world-renowned cat judge Steven Meserve visits The Sydney Morning Herald, six award-winning show cats and owners in tow, the divide is similarly obvious. While some staff can barely contain their excitement, others maintain a cautious distance (βThe only good cat is a dead cat,β remarks one colleague).
For Meserve, 52, whose name has become inextricably tied to the feline stars he judges, the path to becoming cat person wasnβt obvious.
βI did not grow up with cats, believe it or not,β he says.
It wasnβt until, at 18, he spied an advertisement for a Bengal cat in a local Boston newspaper that his fate was sealed.
βHis name was Alex and this is the cat that changed me. You know, for non-cat people to become cat people they have to eventually have this connection with one cat β and they never realised [they were a cat person] until it happens.β
Meserve and Alex did the rounds on the Boston βcat fancyβ circuit, but the hobby fell to the wayside when Meserve decided to go to college, later establishing a successful career in PR and marketing.
A young Meserve with his first cat, Alex.Credit: Instagram/@stevenmeserve
His work took him out of his home town of Boston to San Francisco and eventually London, where he lived for more than 10 years working in fashion PR. In his spare time he worked with the International Cat Association (TICA), judging shows and eventually becoming their regional director for Europe.
βSometimes I was at Paris Fashion Week or London Fashion Week and the next weekend I would go to a leisure centre in, like, South London, judging cats.β
But cats have only recently become his bread and butter, in what he refers to as his βsecond actβ.
Loving Cats Worldwide (LCWW), the organisation he founded in 2015 (which took off during the pandemic) and dedicated to cat events and expos, has made Meserve an internet sensation.
On Instagram and TikTok heβs amassed a combined half a million followers, and his most-watched TikTok video, of a fluffy grey Siberian, has more than 11.4 million views. Today, his work takes him around the world, from Tokyo to Amsterdam, Jakarta to Bogota.
Meserve is speaking to this masthead in Sydney, ahead of a six-week tour of Australia headlining the inaugural Oz Feline Fair.
Itβs hard to pinpoint exactly what it is that makes Meserveβs videos so captivating β adorable cats are, after all, a dime a dozen online these days.
But Meserve is not one to be upstaged. He commands the stage with a swagger, lithely recounting his feline expertise while calmly stretching, stroking and lifting the cat for the audience to behold its full glory.
Thereβs an absurdity to the whole charade, too: Meserveβs earnest and serious commentary at odds with the placid and bemused-looking cat.
Meserve says it wasnβt always this way.
βI was always a little awkward as a child. I mean, I really didnβt come into myself until later on,β he says.
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But on stage, a cat by his side, he is in his element.
βAnimals have always felt safe with me,β he says.
βI was that person at the party who couldnβt care less about the people and would always go hang out with the dog or the cat.β
The work isnβt for everyone. Judges must obtain formal qualifications, learning the unique characteristics of more than 70 breeds that shows acknowledge.
Cats are judged according to a standard of points that correspond to their breed, which include everything from body length to nostril size, health and temperament. Judges must assess all this while putting on a show for the crowd and ensuring the cat stays calm and comfortable.
βWe are talking for eight, 10 hours a day, and with zero breaks, with a cat on the table. And weβre entertaining you but youβre going to sit with me for 10 minutes, and then someone else is going to come, and Iβm doing the same thing over and over again. We donβt even ask stage actors to work that long. Never mind movie actors, right?β says Meserve.
Founding LCWW and breaking out of the traditional cat fancy circuit hasnβt been without controversy.
Historically, Meserve says, cat competitions have been conducted in private and focused on pedigrees.
Meserve (holding Wild Valley Snow Khione, a seal lynx tabby point Snow) with cat owners Barbie Farrugia, left, holding her brown tabby clouded Bengal, Friday, Colleen Blair with her Cornish rex, Sage, and Meredith White with her Scottish fold, Damewood Octavia.Credit: Louise Kennerley
With LCWW, his goal is to bring the cat fancy world to a new, younger audience and shine a light on rescue and mixed breed cats.
Half of his βCATstravaganzaβ showβs categories are regularly devoted to non-pedigree cats, which includes rescues and household cats, while Meserve campaigns for rescue cats through his work with local shelters and a podcast, Everyone Can Have One More Cat.
Criticism has come from both cat welfare advocates (who criticise the continued use of pedigree cats) and traditional show aficionados.
βYou can say Iβm like Vegemite, right? You either love me or you hate me.
βBut weβre disrupting an industry thatβs never been disrupted, and that is great because that needs to happen.β
Outside of the spotlight, Meserve spends his time in Portugal, where he lives with his long-term partner Thiago Pellizaro, a Brazilian he met in London.
The pair live in an βold, 10-bedroom pink mansion in a little village south of Porto that hadnβt been lived in for 20 yearsβ with their six cats (including his βheart catβ, Stone, who has his own Instagram page) and two King Charles cavaliers.
Pellizaro is now training to be a cat judge himself β evidence that no one in Meserveβs orbit is immune to the allure of cats.
The inaugural Oz Feline Fair will come to Brisbane, Perth, Adelaide, Hobart, Melbourne and Sydney. Tickets are on sale now.
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