In his return to North Carolina, Coby White reflects on his roots in the close-knit town of Goldsboro, where his family’s legacy and his father’s impact live on.
GOLDSBORO, N.C. β In Goldsboro, North Carolina, community is everything. For Coby White, it is where everything began.
βJust growing up there, itβs a small community, a very, very small town,β White said. βNot many people even know where it is. I have to explain to people a lot. They ask where Iβm from, they always think Iβm from Greensboro. Iβm like, no, Iβm from Goldsboro.β
The city is tight-knit and familiar, but not without its challenges.
βItβs one of the poorest cities in North Carolina, a lot of violence, stuff like any other small rural area,β White said. βSeeing my peers and the stuff that they had to go through whatever it may be at home life, environments they grew up in, poverty, whatever it may be.β
His sister, Tia White, says the reality of Goldsboro is complex.
βI will never paint Goldsboro as if itβs just horrific,β she said. βNow, you can look at all the data: itβs one of the poorest as far as median income in the United States of America. Thatβs just the reality of it.β
Growing up in a place like Goldsboro can shape perspective, she said.
βIf you are from a city or a town like Goldsboro, you have unintentional, unenforced blinders because the world as you see it is very narrow,β she said.
Still, it is where Coby and his siblings Tia and their brother, Will, were raised by their mother, Bonita, and their late father, Donald, whose influence remains central to their lives.
βMy dad was a character,β Tia White said. βHe was from a time where segregation was still prevalent. He was from a time that everybody wasnβt educated, and he was from a time that hard work meant everything.β
She said their father instilled values that went beyond discipline.
βHe really forced you to think about being intentional and how you could always get more out of life and always give to others in life,β she said.
Donald White also passed down a love for basketball, having played at North Carolina Central University.
βHe really gave Coby the ball first, put it in his hands, would be outside shooting hoops with him,β Tia White said. βHe was the one who told him basketball could be a thing.β
In a family where nearly everyone played, Coby stood out.Β
βIf Coby had a great game, he told him he had a great game. If Coby stunk it up one night, he told him he stunk it up,β she said. βHe was your biggest fan and your harshest critic at the same time.β
Now, roughly 200 miles from Goldsboro, White is back in the state that shaped him after being traded from the Chicago Bulls to the Charlotte Hornets in February.
It is a return that brings his journey full circle. Coby returns to North Carolina, about 200 miles from the local YMCA he said he spent most of his time, and about 200 miles from his high school, Greenfield School, where he still holds the all-time high school scoring record in North Carolina’s history. Now he is back: as a Charlotte Hornet.
βI couldnβt have dreamed of this growing up,β White said. βIf you would have asked the 15, 16-year-old me would I be able to play in the NBA, play in my home state, be as successful as I am and have the opportunity to change lives, I would have looked at you crazy.β
As he builds his career, his family says his foundation has never changed.
βI sit back and I laugh and I say, weβre our ancestorsβ wildest dreams,β Tia White said. βIf my grandparents could see all that weβve accomplished, I know theyβd be proud. If my dad could be here today and see all that weβve accomplished, he would be proud. It sometimes makes me speechless. I know it makes Coby speechless. He’s one of the most humble, hardworking people I know.β