Marriage is a test of many things, but memory might be the biggest

Marriage is a test of many things, but memory might be the biggest



This went back-and-forth like a live grenade. Penny’s mother lives and is sentient – so it was an easily provable case. But before that delicious phone call was made Ambrose backed down, reluctantly accepting Penny was more likely to be right about the obstetric escapades of her mum than he was and not wanting to hear the old girl’s wasp-in-a-bottle tirade from an iPhone. You’d think a gynaecologist would be less … approximate than to declare five caesareans for a woman who’s had none.

Minutes later, we were talking about a mutual friend, and I asked after her brother, Dennis. β€œDead,” said Ambrose. β€œDid away with himself, must be three years ago now.”

Penny is frequently aghast at Ambrose. Routinely aghast, if such a thing is possible. And was aghast again. (Might being aghast take off as a health kick? I’m no cardiologist, but I’ll bet it’s invigorating. Penny looks years younger than she is.)

β€œOMG, Ambrose… He’s alive and well.”

β€œNo. He ended it all. Very sad – but there you are.”

β€œSue’s my best friend. I think I’d know if her brother was dead.”

β€œMaybe have a look at what sort of best friend you are,” he said.

With this getting heated I phoned Sue. β€œHi, just a quick one, is Dennis … How’s Dennis going?” She told me he was still a prick. β€œOK, then. Just checking. Ambrose reckons he did himself in three years ago.” β€œWell, tell f—ing Ambrose to take some interest in my conversation once in a while.”

Having ended the call, I said, β€œBro, you’re not having a good morning. The brother’s alive and unchanged.” β€œWonderful,” he exclaimed, as if I’d just ordered a resurrection from Uber Eats.

He left us then, his whippet and corgi towing him and his misrememberings away along the pier like huskies hauling a sled piled with muskrat pelts. These days people seek the company of Ambrose and Penny just to be entertained by their contending memories. But they’re not an unusual couple. Many a night I’ve recalled some event vividly, bet my life against Sarah’s memory, and lost.

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